Strike these THREE - and you're OUT!

You're right. I'm talking about the type of men you keep giving chances and yet time and again, they fail - either to impress you or to excite you. In fact, they can be quite oblivious to the fact that you're being nice to them just for the sake of being nice. Some more, we are Asians - that's what we do best - we say nasty things in a non-nasty way. Still cannot get it, issit???

Let me try to cut a long story short. For most of us women (girls also, for that matter), these 3 things are big TURN OFFs: -

1. Macho. Metro. Hero. Please try not to fall exclusively into one of these 3 categories. We would love to have bits and parts of all 3. Women (girls also, for that matter) are kinda complicated that way.

2. 7-11 TEXTING. While we're all hooked to facebooking, twittering, blogging...and whatever else there is out there, when it comes to COURTING and LOVE, the good old fashioned way of calling and yes, TALKING, is the still the way to go.

3. Raincoat MATTERS. My body is my temple. It is NOT your nearest 7-Eleven or Guardian pharmacy. Never ever put women (girls also, for that matter) in a dilemma by asking us to shower you with love without a raincoat. Remember, it's ok if it's just a drizzle. God forbid when it rains, it pours!

Ps...Now you know why we're just not THAT into you?